The 4th of July is my favorite holiday of the year. No work, good weather, parades, and fireworks. I love it!
Unless something special happens I won't be posting tomorrow, Hence our official Independence Day thread. We're independent from those crazy Brits, with their official church and rampant Atheism.
This always brings up the question which we should always ask ourselves -- are we wrong? IS the separation of church and state allowing churches to flourish at the expense of the secular? Would an "official religion" be better for atheists?
It may have led to a more secular society if an official religion had been adopted in the founding fathers' years, given 20/20 hindsight, because we'd be in a situation more like Europe now. Pure speculation, but speculation can be fun.
It's way too late, of course, and we are stuck with a fight. If we lose the fight, the official religion will take over the government, dictate our laws, and interfere with our lives and wallets in every way possible. It's just funny how the Church of England has nearly no real effect on the British population.
Happy 4th. Stand for the National Anthem, but SIT if they play God Bless America. Enjoy the fireworks.
I am an American living in England
No one here cares what religion (if any) their politicians belong to, or what any others belong to for that matter.
Comment from: alexatheist [Member]
Im a Briton who is happily now an American citizen. How are things in Orwells surveillance and nanny state these days?
An atheist would have an easy time of being elected to office as compared to a church going Christian in GB.
then Phreedm I use my own experiences to form an opinion on all I here and read
But yesterday's, I rationalized, were in celebration of being rid of Jesse Helms finally. Now, if Pat Robertson and James Dobson would just follow suit...How did you come to possess such an attitude? Is hatred and wishing death upon those you disagree with a “fruit of the atheist ‘spirit’?” Do you wish the same for those who don’t share your contempt for Helms, Robertson and Dobson?
How did you come to possess such an attitude?
Is hatred and wishing death upon those you disagree with a “fruit of the atheist ‘spirit’?”
Do you wish the same for those who don’t share your contempt for Helms, Robertson and Dobson?
From being subjected to lying, hateful, bigoted, cheating, vicious Christians most of my life is my best guess.Wow. So every Christian you’ve run across (or at least the ones you’ve been “subjected to”) were “liars, haters, bigots, cheats and vicious?” Even if they were all those things, does that automatically mean that Christianity requires them to behave like that in order for them to call themselves Christians?—or could it be that those particular individuals were imperfect witnesses of a higher calling?
Jesse Helms was a mean-spirited bigot who couched himself in Christianity and was embraced by people of the same ilk. Most people I know considered him a stain on the image of North Carolina, though- I don't hang out with many republicans.Oh, well does that mean Robert Byrd is an icon of Christian virtue and a model of Democrat behavior?
I was just being honest about my feeling for him.No doubt.
If he'd been an atheist and had had the record he'd had as a senator and said the things he's on record as saying, I'd feel the same.Which begs the question again about Byrd. And what about Ernest Hollings?—will you celebrate their deaths with equal joyous contempt?
Would you rather I dishonestly paid some lip-service homage to people I disdain?No, that wasn’t why I asked. Whenever anyone expresses the apparent joy that you did over someone’s—any one’s—demise always catches my attention.
Or is it just that I didn't follow the rule of "if you don't have anything good to say about someone, don't say anything at all."You’re certainly free to say what you think, but frankly, I’m a little disturbed by the hatred you apparently possess.
Are you implying you don't ever feel contempt for anyone, or don't care if someone in particular has died?No, but I am called to re-examine why I’ve developed any such feelings in the first place—and then pursue a path of forgiveness, if possible.
Anyway, I thought you were done talking to me.I guess I should’ve been clearer about that. I meant that I realized that there is nothing more I can say to you here to get you to understand my positions on things. I didn’t necessarily mean to suggest that I would never respond to you again.
Wow. So every Christian you’ve run across (or at least the ones you’ve been “subjected to”) were “liars, haters, bigots, cheats and vicious?” Even if they were all those things, does that automatically mean that Christianity requires them to behave like that in order for them to call themselves Christians?—or could it be that those particular individuals were imperfect witnesses of a higher calling?
Oh, well does that mean Robert Byrd is an icon of Christian virtue and a model of Democrat behavior?
Which begs the question again about Byrd. And what about Ernest Hollings?—will you celebrate their deaths with equal joyous contempt?
Whenever anyone expresses the apparent joy that you did over someone’s—any one’s—demise always catches my attention.
You’re certainly free to say what you think, but frankly, I’m a little disturbed by the hatred you apparently possess.
No, but I am called to re-examine why I’ve developed any such feelings in the first place—and then pursue a path of forgiveness, if possible.
Hey, if W kicks the bucket, drinks are on me!If I see anybody moron that piece of craps death in public I will make them a "project".
Where did I use the term "every"?Perhaps you overlooked my qualifying, parenthetical phrase: “or at least the ones you’ve been ‘subjected to.’”
[Christianity] calls for them to act the opposite, but then they are always, as you point out(though I disagree with the higher calling point), imperfect.This is another example of my inability to reason with you here. You read my words, but apparently their meaning is lost on you.
But they are also, as they usually point out, forgiven. (Not that they change their behavior or attitude at all; they just keep relying on their imperfection and forgiveness cycle.)And how many times have I had to say, Christians aren’t perfect, just forgiven? And how many times have I had to say that understanding and accepting forgiveness is anything but license? And how many times have I had to refer to Paul having to write to first century churches addressing this exact issue?
[Byrd] did a lot of damage early in his segregationist daysApparently not enough to continue to be ignored by the mainstream, drive-by, media. They treat him with kid gloves compared to evil Republicans…remember Lott? ...double standard anyone?
but he did fight against the war in Iraq and other issues in the W. presidency that a serious democrat should have done.Yes, and what an enormous price he’s paid for his absolution. The trifling stain on his soul left by his days of recruiting for that innocuous little social group call the Klan has been completely absolved by this noble “act of conscience.”
Ernest Hollings? Doesn't ring a bell. I'll have to look him up.Try Googling his name along with “Governor, South Carolina, Capitol, Confederate Battle Flag” and see if Google has the guts to include sites that contain his racist quotes and deeds… But, like Byrd, being in the “correct” party is sufficient penitence for any and all past racist sins.
Think how many people might be alive today if that pretzel had done its job back in 2002.It’s comments like this that contradict your claim that “there is no ‘atheist spirit.’”—hogwash—there is, and it’s irrefutably mean.
Everybody dies, and the truth of the matter is, there are some mofos out there who rate cheers more than tears when they die. If that's cold, so be it. It's not as cold as some of the acts they commit.Oh, no. No, the warmth radiating from those words is enough to heat a small house for the winter. You’re a well of compassion, mercy and forgiveness that has no bottom karen—and God help any poor sap, including your own kids, who end up on your bad side—God knows they deserve your wrath.
Why does this disturb you? Did you think me incapable of such strong feelings?No, I’d just hoped that by this point in your life you’d have sought to possess and understand the deeper meanings of mercy and grace for your fellow man (or are you without such needs for yourself?).
Do you mean you don't know why you feel contempt for a person and have to search for the reason?Not at all. I know exactly what provokes my ire. But I’m also aware that giving in to and intentionally feeding such emotions is not Christ-like, and it’s therefore, always counterproductive.
I also feel no need for forgiveness for feeling no sorrow at his passing.And in the end, we all get what we want—and some, what they deserve. If you live by the sword, you die by it, so self-pity won’t be an option when the same is said of you. As I’ve said before, you’re certainly free to think anything you want, or hate anyone of your choosing, including yourself and God, but only a fool believes he doesn’t need forgiveness.
Perhaps you overlooked my qualifying, parenthetical phrase: “or at least the ones you’ve been ‘subjected to.’”
This is another example of my inability to reason with you here. You read my words, but apparently their meaning is lost on you.
And how many times have I had to say, Christians aren’t perfect, just forgiven? And how many times have I had to say that understanding and accepting forgiveness is anything but license? And how many times have I had to refer to Paul having to write to first century churches addressing this exact issue?
Apparently not enough to continue to be ignored by the mainstream, drive-by, media. They treat him (Byrd)with kid gloves compared to evil Republicans…remember Lott? ...double standard anyone?
In the book Free Culture, Lawrence Lessig argues that the resignation of Lott would not have occurred had it not been for the effect of Internet blogs. He says that though the story "disappear[ed] from the mainstream press within forty-eight hours", "bloggers kept researching the story" until, "[f]inally, the story broke back into the mainstream press."[10]
Try Googling his name along with “Governor, South Carolina, Capitol, Confederate Battle Flag” and see if Google has the guts to include sites that contain his racist quotes and deeds… But, like Byrd, being in the “correct” party is sufficient penitence for any and all past racist sins.
It’s comments like this that contradict your claim that “there is no ‘atheist spirit.’”—hogwash—there is, and it’s irrefutably mean.
Oh, no. No, the warmth radiating from those words is enough to heat a small house for the winter. You’re a well of compassion, mercy and forgiveness that has no bottom karen—and God help any poor sap, including your own kids, who end up on your bad side—God knows they deserve your wrath.
No, I’d just hoped that by this point in your life you’d have sought to possess and understand the deeper meanings of mercy and grace for your fellow man (or are you without such needs for yourself?).
I’m truly saddened to see you continuing to cling to such bitterness and rage as you grow older. Do you really want that to be remembered as someone who wouldn’t let that go when you’re gone?
And in the end, we all get what we want—and some, what they deserve. If you live by the sword, you die by it, so self-pity won’t be an option when the same is said of you. As I’ve said before, you’re certainly free to think anything you want, or hate anyone of your choosing, including yourself and God, but only a fool believes he doesn’t need forgiveness.
But the overwhelming majority seem to treat the process like license, whether consciously or not.Which makes my point—their doing so proves they either don’t understand what Christianity is all about, or they’re intentionally abusing the integrity of its name.
Byrd's racism is well-documented; I don't know why you think Hollings' wouldn't be. The persecution complex is spilling over into the republican part of you from the theistic part of you.I was simply pointing out the clear, demonstrable, double standard of the mainstream, liberal media.
I stole the pretzel line from someone at a cookout a while back. Everyone laughed and agreed with it, and no one there but me was an atheist.Ah! Well, that makes it all better then.
My kids have my unconditional loveOh, I do hope Krys doesn’t catch wind of your admission to that…
Mercy, sure, if someone has a gun to my head.No, mercy in the sense of not getting what you deserve (which is not injustice, or being spared from someone else’s malevolence).
Grace, I don't know what that means involving my fellow man.It’s what’s necessary for you to show mercy.
Sorry to disappoint, but I haven't felt [self-pity] in a long time.I meant if the tables were turned.
And I don't hate myself;Didn’t say that you did—just that you’re free to do such a thing.
Can't hate god, because he isn't real, but do hate the idea of god that's presented in the Abrahamic religions.I find that to be an attempt at making a distinction without a real difference.
And sometimes I do need forgiveness. But not now.As usual, pride is the last barrier to the entrance of one’s heart.
Which makes my point—their doing so proves they either don’t understand what Christianity is all about, or they’re intentionally abusing the integrity of its name.
Ah! Well, that makes it all better then.
Oh, I do hope Krys doesn’t catch wind of your admission to that…
No, mercy in the sense of not getting what you deserve (which is not injustice, or being spared from someone else’s malevolence).
It’s (grace)what’s necessary for you to show mercy.
I meant if the tables were turned.
I find that to be an attempt at making a distinction without a real difference.
As usual, pride is the last barrier to the entrance of one’s heart.
Or they like to say they are Christians because it gives them a cloak of "decent" stature.Which is a false representation of Christianity—that is, abuse of the name.
The problem with "they don't understand what Christianity is all about" is that no one is an actual authority on the subject.And that makes no sense to me because if I can understand it, anyone can.
"They" might think YOU have much of it wrong.And if “they” took the time to investigate it, “they” would discover that I am far from being alone in that understanding.
I thought it was alatham you were having that conversation with.For the most part, I was (or am—but he may not have noticed my latest reply), but as usual I had to contend with Krys’ distractingly jejune interruptions.
I almost butted in on that to try to help you explain a parent's unconditional love for his/her children, but thought better of it.Your comments would’ve been more than welcomed by me (but I can understand your reticence for fear of falling out his “good graces.”) ;-)
Are you speaking in terms of mercy involving my fellow man here? Or is this a heaven/hell reference?It applies equally to both.
Guess I'm not real stocked up on grace then. Because, honestly, there are some people I'd have to turn my back on and walk away.Well, for my sake, I’m, really glad Christ didn’t feel that way.
You mean what if people didn't care if I died, or laughed about it? Big deal.Even if that included those whom you love unconditionally?
I see no evidence to support the claim that the god in the Abrahamic religions is anything more than an idea.…An idea that isn’t quite intuitive to human nature…
Wow, My therapist will be thrilled to hear I've been accused of being proud.What? You didn’t really think you were immune to it did you?
But in my case, I think trust is more the issue.Hey, you’re not alone there either. From what I’ve seen, and without exception, it’s always an issue of trust—trusting God, that is.
And that makes no sense to me because if I can understand it, anyone can.
And if “they” took the time to investigate it, “they” would discover that I am far from being alone in that understanding.
Your comments would’ve been more than welcomed by me (but I can understand your reticence for fear of falling out his “good graces.”) ;-)
Well, for my sake, I’m, really glad Christ didn’t feel that way.
Even if that included those whom you love unconditionally?
…An idea that isn’t quite intuitive to human nature…
What? You didn’t really think you were immune to it(pride) did you?
Hey, you’re not alone there either. From what I’ve seen, and without exception, it’s always an issue of trust—trusting God, that is.
What makes you so sure you've got it right?Because it [salvation by grace alone, through faith alone, the sole priesthood of Christ and the authority of Scripture] is clearly explained in the Bible.
So, how many others actually agree with youUm, millions?
why can't you all convince the rest of the errant interpreters where they went wrong?Um, free will?—just ask spanders…
Perhaps they've investigated as long as you have and just come to different conclusions.Maybe… if they choose to only believe parts of the Bible, or twist meanings to suite what they want to believe, or added what they wanted to it.
Whose? Alatham's or KA's?Why Krys’s of course.
Alatham seemed to be taking the discussion in stride, just not fully understanding the concept.Yes. He’s actually willing to listen to and consider the merits of the other side of an argument—the mark of a truly open mind.
I actually thought you were doing a good job of explaining the dynamic between parents and children.Why thank you karen! Your honest opinion means a great deal to me—your fearless honesty is another mark of a truly open(ing) mind. ;-)
I think maybe one has to be a parent to really comprehend unconditional love towards someoneAgreed. There are a couple of single ladies at my office (over 40) who, for whatever reasons, haven’t married and I often feel sad for them (and anyone else in that situation for that matter) for not having the opportunity to watch a child grow into an adult. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I pity them, but am genuinely sad for them that they haven’t known all the emotions—and especially the joys—of parenthood.
but then, there are those parents who don't experience it, also.Yes, the fact that there are so many parents who choose not to honor their full parental responsibilities is equally sad.
You're not one I'd turn my back on.Yes, I know that, but if you’re willing to do that for me because of what little you know about me from here, what would it say about you if you did for it for a complete stranger? And if you’d do it for a stranger, why not to someone who, despite whatever evil he’s done but who’s also truly contrite, might need that same compassion?
Um...you do realize I'll be dead, right?Sorry, I meant immediately prior to your death.
Um...huh? I'm sorry, your signal seems to be blocked by my dense-o-trometer. Please try again.What I meant was that the “idea” of the God of Abraham, Moses and Jesus—a God willing to provide salvation by mercy and grace despite our predilection to be prodigals—isn’t an idea we humans are likely to manufacture on our own.
Immune? No. Actually exhibiting it? Not very often. Baby steps.If it makes you feel any better, that’s pretty much how my eyes were opened.
Maybe… if they choose to only believe parts of the Bible, or twist meanings to suit what they want to believe, or added what they wanted to it.
willing to provide salvation by mercy and grace despite our predilection to be prodigals—isn’t an idea we humans are likely to manufacture on our own.
I love you too, karen, but I don't think anyone loves anyone 'unconditionally'.I don't place conditions on my love for my children. Isn't that unconditional love?
Can you not imagine a condition whereby the love for your children would cease?No. Can you?
there must be a least one circumstance which would end parental love.Why do you assume there must be one?
didn't the ultimate parent kill almost all his children, except for a drunk and his offspring?If God is the creator of all living things (that were not created to live forever in this world) then doesn’t that also entitle Him to the privilege of deciding when each creature will die?
Just what are you arguing with JCC about? He's a deluded xian right-wing wacko that "believes" all the nonfactual nonsense that goes along with being one. That's all there is to the guy.
KA:I love you too, karen, but I don't think anyone loves anyone 'unconditionally'.
Obeah:Can you not imagine a condition whereby the love for your children would cease?
what if a child got some brain disease or cancer or was in an accident that affected the brain in such a way that his personality was altered and he didn't recognize me as his mother anymore. In fact, he would lash out at me, or threaten me. I couldn't stop loving him. Because I would still see my son, and love him more and hurt for him for what he was going through.That indicates to me to be a significant change of attitude by you on that subject. The reason I say this is because I believe I remember you being sympathetic to Michael Schiavo’s successful court fight to kill Terri Schiavo by depriving her of food and water. If you were sympathetic to his cause, but now profess to still being able to unconditionally love your child regardless of what mental or physical condition he/she is in, does that mean that you’ve also had a change of heart regarding the treatment of Terri Schiavo?
and he's willing to get into the meat of the matter.Meat? Where? I don't see anything on the bones you have been picking. Where's the beef?
I've tried to think of a reason and I can't.Same here.
Because it [salvation by grace alone, through faith alone, the sole priesthood of Christ and the authority of Scripture] is clearly explained in the Bible.
Um, free will?—just ask spanders…
Maybe… if they choose to only believe parts of the Bible, or twist meanings to suite what they want to believe, or added what they wanted to it.
Why thank you karen! Your honest opinion means a great deal to me—your fearless honesty is another mark of a truly open(ing) mind. ;-)
There are a couple of single ladies at my office (over 40) who, for whatever reasons, haven’t married and I often feel sad for them (and anyone else in that situation for that matter) for not having the opportunity to watch a child grow into an adult. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying I pity them, but am genuinely sad for them that they haven’t known all the emotions—and especially the joys—of parenthood.
And if you’d do it for a stranger, why not to someone who, despite whatever evil he’s done but who’s also truly contrite, might need that same compassion?
Sorry, I meant immediately prior to your death.
What I meant was that the “idea” of the God of Abraham, Moses and Jesus—a God willing to provide salvation by mercy and grace despite our predilection to be prodigals—isn’t an idea we humans are likely to manufacture on our own.
If you were sympathetic to his cause, but now profess to still being able to unconditionally love your child regardless of what mental or physical condition he/she is in, does that mean that you’ve also had a change of heart regarding the treatment of Terri Schiavo?
Can you not imagine a condition whereby the love for your children would cease?
No. Can you?
Why do you assume there must be one?
If God is the creator of all living things (that were not created to live forever in this world) then doesn’t that also entitle Him to the privilege of deciding when each creature will die?
You have no idea how stupid this sounds to me, do you?
Do you mean salvation by grace through faith alone? Because as it stands it looks like salvation through grace alone, and through faith alone. That's two alones.Let me try again: salvation is only possible by the grace of God—that is, it can’t be achieved on our own or through any agent other than God, and only then by His grace—His unmerited favor. How we appropriate that grace is through our faith and faith alone. We can’t appease God or buy His favor (i.e. His grace) by our actions. It is only through a trusting, faithful heart that we can secure our salvation. I hope that helped.
What's "sole Priesthood" of Christ?Christ, and Christ alone is the only intermediary necessary for us to be able to come to God; no priests, vicars or Popes; our individual, personal, communion with Christ is sufficient.
The authority of scripture-THAT'S where everybody goes really looney tunes. Obviously it is NOT clearly explained at all.It was pretty clear to me when I read it.
Or Fred Phelps?Are you saying that he doesn’t have the freedom to hate?
How do you know they do this?spanders has said as much many times here—to him, the Bible is merely a guide, a collection of well intentioned allegories that we should try to model our lives on—not the Word of God. And the Mormons added an entirely new book that is utterly unsubstantiated, and in many cases contradicted by, both history and archeology, to it.
And your answer to the first question leads me to believe that what you think is "clearly explained" is simply you version of "what [you] want to believe."karen, I neither made those four points up, nor do I merely “want to believe” them; they’re the Four Great Statements that Luther, and Calvin (among others) concluded about Christianity during the Reformation in the 16th century.
So, my honest opinion, when it agrees with you, is fearless and the sign of an opening mind, but when it disagrees with you, is frightening and cold-hearted?Um, yeah.
Have they ever mentioned feeling bad about not marrying or having children? (Remember one is reliant on the other!)Perhaps they have no desire for either. Such women do exist you know.Not explicitly, but it doesn’t take a Ph.D. in psychology to pick up on subtle hints during conversations.
They may even be heterosexual! Imagine, heterosexual women, not pining for marriage and children.Holy mackerel!—what did I possibly say that gave even the slightest hint at what their sexuality was?—talk about profiling, presuming, and stereotyping! I sure hope you don’t accuse me or any other conservative of doing such a thing in the future—‘cause you just gave me all the evidence I need that liberals can be as prejudiced as what they accuse conservatives of being.
Before you go on feeling sad for them, you might want to find out if maybe they are perfectly happy with their situations.karen, they live alone (no partners of any kind—only pets), and have so all their adult lives.
I was speaking of those who aren't [contrite]. If you go back and reread what I wrote about the jerk, I think you'll see that.My point was, everyone needs compassion.
Because I think that's exactly the kind of idea we would come up with on our own. Look at all the other ideas that are so strikingly similar. This one was just tweaked a bit to appeal to more people and satisfy more needs. I think it's obvious.And for you to conclude that baffles me because Christianity stands alone on it’s foundation that God is the one reaching out to humanity—not the other way around; and that it’s our minds that need changing about Him—not His about us—for our salvation. No other religion offers that because those concepts aren’t intuitive to us.
If Terry Schiavo had been my daughter, I would have done the same thing her husband did. Loving my child unconditionally does not mean letting his or her body continue existing in a vegetative state when his/her mind is no longer functional. When the brain is functionally "dead", the person is no longer there.But that wasn’t the case; Terri was anything but “brain dead”—she was clearly responsive to others (I saw the videos). Yes, she was severely brain damaged, but she wasn’t brain dead. Her death was an intentional act. Could you accept a court that orders you to stop feeding your child?—a child who could still squeeze your hand when you squeezed theirs?
It (authority of scriptures)was pretty clear to me when I read it.
Are you saying that he(Fred Phelps) doesn’t have the freedom to hate?
spanders has said as much many times here—to him, the Bible is merely a guide, a collection of well intentioned allegories that we should try to model our lives on—not the Word of God. And the Mormons added an entirely new book that is utterly unsubstantiated, and in many cases contradicted by, both history and archeology, to it.
Not explicitly,(talking about marriage, children) but it doesn’t take a Ph.D. in psychology to pick up on subtle hints during conversations.
Holy mackerel!—what did I possibly say that gave even the slightest hint at what their sexuality was?—talk about profiling, presuming, and stereotyping!
It (authority of scriptures)was pretty clear to me when I read it.
Are you saying that he(Fred Phelps) doesn’t have the freedom to hate?
spanders has said as much many times here—to him, the Bible is merely a guide, a collection of well intentioned allegories that we should try to model our lives on—not the Word of God. And the Mormons added an entirely new book that is utterly unsubstantiated, and in many cases contradicted by, both history and archeology, to it.
Not explicitly,(talking about marriage, children) but it doesn’t take a Ph.D. in psychology to pick up on subtle hints during conversations.
Holy mackerel!—what did I possibly say that gave even the slightest hint at what their sexuality was?—talk about profiling, presuming, and stereotyping!
Holy mackerel!—what did I possibly say that gave even the slightest hint at what their sexuality was?—talk about profiling, presuming, and stereotyping!
I personally want God's blessings on America. You don't?
No I mean God the Father the one and true God, no other God but him.
Who validated that their is no God?
Do you believe that you have a brain?
Have you actually ever seen your brain?
He is far to complex for the human mind to comprehend
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